~ long distance relationship ~

Assalamualaikum.. hye guys... :)

Di petang yg indah ini, Cik Zuera just nk share dgn u olls psl the long distance relatioship.

huhu, tetiba jerk kan nk writing about this.

maybe that is a part of my life. :)

dgn mempunyai my own experience, so Cik Zuera dpt laa share ckit psl bnda nie.

and for sure laa xde masalah bagi Cik Zuera nk menulis tentang ~ 

Perhubungan Jarak Jauh.

and now I would like to share to u olls about how to mantain our long distance relationship.

• Routine Awal Relationship

Actually routine awal dlm sesebuah relatiship tu is not important sgt. If start dari awal lagik kita dh memang sudah biasa x dating selalu, and x selalu luangkan masa bersama, for sure laa the long distance relatiuonship ini akan tidak mendatangkan masalah. Bykkan dengan call or sms, itupun sudah cukup memadai.

• Boleh Hidup Without Dating

Asal couple, mesti setiap pasangan tu mesti akn fkir pasal rigid. Bila dh couple mesti kena dating tiap-tiap hari. Hubungan percintaan bukan setakat dating tuk happy2 jew. Byk lagi method laen utk interact in our relationship. InsyaAllah when we are far from our partner, kta naturally akan rasa cool jew and itu semua x akan menimbulkan sbrg masalah. Lagi pun Cik Zuera rase mudah jew klau kita dh mula thinking about him, just contact jew through direct call, sms, skype, ym.., its no matter what, right ? And from my opinion, bila kita kapel dgn someone, x semestinya wajib kita kena kluar dating setiap hari, setiap minggu, setiap bulan or tiap2 6 bulan...

• Anggap Our Relationship is ONE of our Focus in Our Life

Why we need fall in love ?  When we start loving each other, for sure we hopefully want the happiness ending with marriage. From that, baru laa cinta nie akan continuesly till married. Bila ada focus, ada peratusan sunyi bila x dating dan peratusan untuk curang pun kurang. One more thing, focus tu jugak laa membantu kita utk stay on the path.

As example, seseorang lelaki tu akan bataskan pergaulan dgn gadis2 laen utk elakkan TERberi harapan or TERjatuh hati pada gadis laen.Sbabnya dia focus in our relationship.

• SHARE minat yang sama and bualkan.

Eventhough kita in long distance relationship, but itu semua bukan penghalang dalam perhubungan. BUT when minat kta share sesama, mesti akan ada something yg interact dlm relationship.

As example, walaupun berjauhan, times kita ada buat activity pape pun, biar pun differeny activity and places, kita bley saved or recorded our activity and shared together. And at the same time, kita bualkan ap activity yg kita lakukan pd our partner. Itu sume pun dh ckup dlm sesebuah relationship.

• when MEET him/ her, do something yg SPECIAL.

Bila dah kdg2 kita jumpa si dia, so the best thing we shoul do is making something special for special partner. As example, kita try laa buat hand-made cards yg special and some speech or quotes of loves for our special person. And one more thing by hand-made cards nie pun boleh laa kta tengok blik semula kad2 tu time kita dh start rindu pada si dia. Dan boleh kita baca berulang2 kali. :)

• TRUST and DOA

Kepercayaan. Bercinta jarak dekat pun kena ada kepercayaan. So, alihkan our thinking from sebarang syak wasangka pd psangan. try laa utk percayakan si dia BUT not to trust 100 %. huhu. One more thing kta seboleh2 nya elakkan dari wujudnya sikap terlalu jealous pd psngan. DOA jugak is the most important. So, doa2 laa selalu tuk mendapat keredhaan dari-Nya dgn keluarga kita in our relationship.

• Sincerely.

Last but not least, sincreley is the one of most important thing in relationship. Its depends from ourself. So just sincere with your partner and for sure the happiness will always being to us. InsyaAllah. :)

Amirul Faez, ilysm. :)